◈ PRIVACY ◈

YOUR PRIVACY, A SACRED TRUST

At Asli Rishta Pakistan, discretion is not a feature — it is the service. Your family's file is never published, never listed, and is handled only by authorised senior consultants involved in your matchmaking.

PRIVATENo public profile listings
HUMANNamed consultants only
ERASUREOn request, free, any time
Three Core Commitments

How We Protect Your Family

Nothing Is Published

Your family's name, photographs, biodata and preferences are not published on our website, not listed in any directory, and not uploaded to any matrimonial app or open portal. Because nothing is published, there is nothing for a search engine to find.

Handled by People, Not Systems

Your file is read and matched by named senior consultants working by hand — not by an automated matching engine, a recommendation algorithm, or a public profile network. The person who reads your file is the person you speak to.

Yours to Withdraw

Your records are held on trust for as long as your file is open. You can ask us to erase your profile, biodata sheets and message history at any moment — without giving a reason, without a fee, and without needing to explain the decision to anyone.

Confidential Protocol

Privacy & Discretion Policy

ARP CONNECT (SMC-PRIVATE) Limited  |  Last Updated: August 2026

At Asli Rishta Pakistan (ARP), discretion is the bedrock of our advisory service. Operating under ARP CONNECT (SMC-PRIVATE) Limited — registered with SECP (CUIN: 0338550) and FBR (NTN: J150929) — we protect the privacy of respected families by ensuring client profiles are not published, listed, or exposed through open internet portals. The website form exists only to open a private conversation; everything that follows is handled by senior human consultants through secure, direct channels. This document explains, plainly and without exaggeration, what we collect, how it is protected, what we cannot control, and how you can have it all erased.

Section 01

Secure Channels of Communication

To guard against identity theft, data leaks and unauthorised scraping, all biographical records are collected, handled and shared strictly through private, non-public channels. The website profile form is designed only to initiate a private conversation. It does not create a public client profile, a directory entry, or a public-facing family record.

How the website form works: Information submitted through our profile form is transmitted directly to our designated WhatsApp terminal (+92 320 123 1111) for private consultation. It is not saved to a public database, not displayed anywhere on the website, and not made available as a public client profile.

  • Encrypted WhatsApp Liaison
    Initial consultation, biodata sharing and family coordination take place through our verified WhatsApp terminal at +92 320 123 1111. WhatsApp applies end-to-end encryption to message content in transit, meaning the contents of your messages are readable only on your device and ours.
  • Private Corporate Email
    Formal documentation and credentials stay within our corporate email environment, accessible only to authorised consultants. Correspondence sent to info@aslirishta.pk is opened and handled by those consultants alone.
  • Senior Consultants Only
    Every piece of family information is read and matched by named senior consultants. We do not use automated matchmaking engines, chatbots, or profile-recommendation systems to process your file.
  • What We Are Honest About
    WhatsApp and email are operated by outside companies. We control how we use them and who on our side may read your messages; we do not control their underlying infrastructure. If you would prefer to share particularly sensitive details by voice call or in person at our Lahore office instead, simply tell your consultant.
Section 02

The Information We Collect & Why

We collect only the minimum biographical detail needed to conduct careful, manual matchmaking on your behalf. Nothing beyond what the introduction process genuinely requires is requested or retained.

What we typically record: family background, sect and caste where a family chooses to state them, city and residential status (Pakistan or overseas), education, profession, marital history where relevant, and the partner criteria your family communicates to the consultant. Photographs are held only when you provide them, and are shared only as described in Section 04.

Financial details: We do not collect, process or store card numbers, bank account numbers, or digital wallet credentials. Registration investments are made by bank transfer, and the only thing we record is the transaction reference number, used to verify and activate your file.

What we do not collect: health or medical records, immigration files, property valuations, salary slips, or detailed financial statements. We do not require digital copies of CNIC, passport, or other identity documents. If a consultant ever needs to sight a document for verification, it is viewed and returned — not copied into our archive.

Section 03

Consent, Eligibility & Sensitive Details

A rishta file may only be opened for an adult of legal marriageable age. We do not knowingly open files, collect biodata, or arrange introductions for minors, and any such file discovered is closed and erased immediately.

The person concerned must know. Where a parent, sibling or elder registers on behalf of a prospective bride or groom, we ask you to confirm that the individual is aware their profile has been placed with us and agrees to it. We will not proceed with introductions for someone who has not consented to being represented.

Details such as sect, caste, biradari and family background are recorded only when your family volunteers them, because they are matters many families consider private. You may decline to state any of them, and your consultant will note the omission rather than press the question.

If you share information about a third person — a sibling's profession, a relative's contact number — you confirm that person is comfortable with it being shared. Consent may be withdrawn at any time, in whole or in part, by telling your consultant. Withdrawing consent stops further sharing immediately and can be followed by a full erasure request under Section 08.

Section 04

Exclusion from Public Display & Search

Your family profile is not published on our website, not listed in any directory, and not uploaded to any matrimonial application or open matrimonial platform. Because nothing is published, there is no public client profile for anyone to access.

Introductions are made by hand. A profile is discussed only within our private circle of registered families — and specific biographical details or photographs are presented to a particular family only after both sides have separately agreed to the introduction. Consent comes before disclosure, never after.

No photograph, personal description, educational detail or contact number belonging to a registered family is ever placed in:

  • WhatsApp broadcast lists or group chats of any size
  • Social media pages, posts or stories on any platform
  • Third-party matrimonial websites, apps or aggregators
  • Any online directory, listing or publicly accessible database
  • The hands of any unverified family or unregistered party
  • Advertising networks, data brokers, or any commercial buyer — we do not sell, rent or trade client information under any circumstance
Section 05

Website Visits & Third-Party Services

We would rather be precise than impressive here, so this section explains exactly what happens when you visit aslirishta.pk.

What we deliberately do not use: no Facebook Pixel, no Google Ads remarketing tags, no behavioural analytics, no cross-site advertising cookies, and no profiling tools that follow you to other websites. We do not build an advertising profile of you and we do not retarget visitors with ads.

What is unavoidable, stated plainly: like every website, ours is delivered by a hosting provider that keeps routine server logs — IP address, browser type, page requested, and time — for security and diagnostics. Our typefaces and icons load from external content delivery networks, which necessarily receive your IP address in order to send the file to your browser. None of this creates an account, a profile, or an advertising identity, and none of it is linked to any matrimonial file.

Any cookie set on our site is essential to the page functioning. Browsing our website does not register you, does not open a file, and does not add you to any list. A file exists only once you contact a consultant and ask for one.

Section 06

Safeguards, Access & Security Incidents

Your file is held in a restricted internal archive that is not connected to the public website and not reachable from the internet at large.

  • Need-to-Know Access
    Only the senior consultants actively working on your matchmaking may open your file. Administrative and support staff do not have access to biodata, photographs, or family details.
  • Protected Devices
    Consultant devices used for client liaison are passcode-protected and encrypted, and are used for client work only. Access is revoked and devices are cleared the day a consultant leaves the firm.
  • Binding Confidentiality
    Every consultant signs a confidentiality undertaking that survives the end of their employment. Discussing a client family outside the office is treated as a terminable breach.
  • If Something Goes Wrong
    No organisation can promise a system will never be compromised, and we will not make that promise. What we do commit to: if an incident affects your file, we contact you directly on your registered channel, tell you what was affected, and tell you what we are doing about it — promptly and without waiting to be asked.
Section 07

How Long We Keep Your File

We hold your records only while there is a reason to hold them.

  • While your search is active
    Your file remains open and in use for as long as you are engaged with us.
  • If your file goes quiet
    Where there has been no contact for twenty-four months, we write once to your registered number or email. If we receive no reply within thirty days, the file is closed and erased.
  • After a successful rishta
    We retain the file for twelve months in case the families wish to return to us, then erase it — or sooner, the moment you ask.

What survives erasure: after a file is erased, we keep only a minimal administrative record — that a file existed, when it was opened and closed, and the bank transaction reference required for our accounts. No biodata, no photographs, no preferences, no family details and no message history are retained.

Section 08

Your Right to Permanent Erasure

Your family's information is held on trust, and that trust is yours to withdraw. At any moment you may ask us to permanently erase your profile, biodata sheets, photographs and message history. This right does not expire, requires no justification, and carries no charge.

How to ask: email info@aslirishta.pk from your registered address, or send a WhatsApp message from the number on file, saying that you wish your family profile to be erased. Your consultant will acknowledge the request, and your records are removed from our active systems and archives within 7 working days.

Two things we would rather you hear from us than discover later. First, encrypted routine backups are overwritten on a rolling cycle, so a residual copy may persist for up to thirty days after erasure; it is never restored to active use and is never consulted for matchmaking. Second, message threads on your own phone remain under your control — we delete our copies, and you may delete yours whenever you choose.

You may also make narrower requests: ask us to correct a detail, remove only your photographs, pause your file without erasing it, or stop sharing your profile with new families while keeping existing conversations open. Simply tell your consultant which.

Section 09

Families Registering from Overseas

We are engaged by many Pakistani families settled abroad. Our office, our consultants and our archives are all located in Lahore, Pakistan, which means your family's records are held and handled in Pakistan regardless of where you live. By opening a file with us, you understand and accept this.

Every protection described in this document applies identically to overseas families — the same restrictions on display and sharing, the same consultant-only access, the same retention limits, and the same unconditional right to erasure, exercised the same way and within the same 7 working days.

Section 10

Consent, Limitations & Updates to This Policy

By opening a consultation with Asli Rishta Pakistan through WhatsApp or email, you confirm that you have read and understood this Privacy & Discretion Policy and agree to the handling described in it.

We are responsible for what happens to your information inside our care. We cannot be responsible for information you share outside our channels — profile details posted on personal social media, biodata forwarded to acquaintances, or documents sent through unsecured third-party services. Nor can we be responsible for what another family does with details you have expressly consented to share with them; introductions are made in good faith between families, and discretion beyond that point is a matter of mutual trust.

This policy is reviewed periodically, and the current version always appears on this page with its revision date at the top. If we make a change that materially affects how your information is handled, we will tell registered families directly on their registered channel rather than relying on a quiet update.

For any privacy question, correction, or erasure request, write to the senior consultant responsible for client privacy at info@aslirishta.pk, or message our WhatsApp terminal at +92 320 123 1111.

Liaison & Registry Office

ARP CONNECT (SMC-PRIVATE) Limited · Topaz, Parkview City, Lahore, Pakistan

Secure Emailinfo@aslirishta.pk
WhatsApp Terminal+92 320 123 1111
SECP RegistrationCUIN: 0338550
Privacy Questions

Common Privacy Questions Answered

By not publishing anything. There is no public profile, no client directory and no open profile portal — so your family's details never sit anywhere a stranger could find them. Every conversation runs through private channels with a named senior consultant, and a profile is only ever discussed with another family after both sides have agreed.

Yes. Consultation, biodata sharing and family coordination take place over WhatsApp, which applies end-to-end encryption to message content in transit — meaning your messages are readable on your device and ours, and not in between. Corporate email is handled by authorised consultants only. If you would prefer to discuss something especially sensitive by voice or in person at our Lahore office, just say so.

Only what is needed to judge suitability — background, education, profession and lifestyle criteria — and only after both families have separately agreed to the introduction. Photographs and contact details are shared later, and only with your explicit permission each time.

No. We do not publish client profiles on our website, on matrimonial applications, or on any public platform — and what is never published cannot be indexed. The only people who see any part of your file are Asli Rishta's senior consultants registered families you have consented to.

Only the senior consultants actively working on your matchmaking. Administrative and support staff have no access to biodata, photographs or family details. Every consultant signs a confidentiality undertaking that continues to bind them after they leave the firm.

Yes — unconditionally, free, and with no reason required. Email info@aslirishta.pk from your registered address or message us from your registered number, and your profile, biodata sheets and message history are removed from our systems within 7 working days. Encrypted routine backups are overwritten on a rolling cycle within thirty days and are never restored to active use.

No advertising or profiling tools of any kind — no Facebook Pixel, no Google Ads remarketing, no behavioural analytics, no cross-site tracking. We will be straightforward about the rest: our host keeps routine server logs for security, and our fonts and icons load from external content delivery networks that receive your IP address in order to deliver the file. None of it creates an advertising profile, and none of it is linked to any matrimonial file.

Yes, and most of our files are opened by parents or elder siblings. We ask only that the prospective bride or groom knows their profile is with us and agrees to it. We do not proceed with introductions for someone who has not consented to being represented, and we do not open files for anyone below legal marriageable age.

Have a Privacy Question?

Our senior consultant will answer any question about how your family's information is handled — privately, directly, and with no obligation to register.

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